A Dose of Perspective

In my Making Time for Self-Care blog post I discussed a number of shifts or changes that have occurred within me while battling cancer. One of the most beneficial outcomes of these changes is my perspective on life. I have a new appreciation for being alive. Small things, like errands or chores, have become a blessing because I am alive to do them. I relish every moment I get to be with my son (even when he has asked me the same question for the twelfth time). When I look in the mirror and see a new wrinkle I am grateful. Every line on my face represents time I have been given to live (I know, not in agreement with our youth-seeking society).

I truly believe my frame of mind could have gone in a negative direction. Doctors have failed to diagnose me, given up on me, and used me as a guinea pig. I have both physical and emotional scares from these experiences. I could have stayed angry with them or wallowed in the mindset of “why me?” While there is still an unfairness to getting sick at a relatively young age, at some point in the last two years I made the decision to focus on the positives in life. I did not want whatever time I have left to be ruled by negativity.

In a way my perspective on life is similar to viewing a painting or work of art. It is easy to focus on the flaws or errors present. They can be distracting and control the movement of the eye. However, if the viewer is able to look beyond the flaws or accept them as part of the image, beauty can be found. It is not always easy or convenient to view life in this way, but the results of the effort are unsurpassable. My hope is to continue to regard life with a positive and grateful lens. I hope you will join me.

I’d like some fresh, clear, well-seasoned perspectives. Anton Ego